Something Old, Something New: The Tradition Every Bride Knows (But Might Not Fully Get!)

You’ve probably heard the classic wedding rhyme: "Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue." But have you ever stopped to wonder… why? Who came up with this? And does it really bring good luck, or is it just an excuse to add a pop of blue somewhere?

Well, grab a cup of coffee (or a mimosa, no judgment here), because we’re diving into a little wedding history lesson—followed by some fun, creative ways to incorporate these traditions into your big day!

Where Did This Tradition Even Come From?

This little rhyme has been around since the 19th century and actually has a forgotten fifth line:
"Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue… and a sixpence in your shoe!"

It originated in Lancashire, England, and was meant as a checklist for bringing good luck to the bride. While most modern brides might skip the whole "sticking a coin in your shoe" part (because, ouch), the rest of the tradition has stuck around as a fun way to add sentimental touches to a wedding.

Each item represents something special:

  • Something old → A connection to the past.

  • Something new → A bright, hopeful future.

  • Something borrowed → Luck from a happily married friend or family member.

  • Something blue → Protection from bad vibes + a symbol of love, purity, and fidelity.

Now, let’s talk about how you can make this tradition your own!

Creative Ways to Incorporate These Into Your Wedding

✨ Something Old

This is the perfect chance to bring in a family heirloom or something that connects you to your roots.

  • A vintage locket with a family photo inside.

  • A piece of lace from your mom’s or grandma’s wedding dress sewn into your gown.

  • A classic getaway car that’s been in the family for years!

💍 Something New

This one’s easy (hello, wedding dress!), but if you want to think outside the box:

  • A brand new signature scent to wear on your wedding day (cue the memory trigger every time you wear it after!)

  • Custom jewelry made just for you.

  • Your wedding band—because nothing says “new” like “brand new forever commitment.” 😍

🤍 Something Borrowed

This is all about passing along good vibes from a happily married couple!

  • Borrow your mom’s veil or your best friend’s earrings.

  • Use the same first dance song as your parents or grandparents.

  • Borrow a piece of décor from a family wedding—maybe a candle holder, cake topper, or even glassware!

💙 Something Blue

This is where you can get really creative!

  • A blue ribbon wrapped around your bouquet.

  • Blue heels (because why not add a little sass to that aisle walk?).

  • A blue manicure for a subtle touch.

  • Incorporate blue into your wedding cake or table décor for a modern twist.

Capture Every Thoughtful Detail—Let’s Make Magic Together!

These little details—your grandma’s locket, your best friend’s borrowed veil, that pop of blue on your heels—are the ones that make your wedding uniquely yours. And trust me, you’re going to want those captured beautifully!

As a wedding photographer, I LIVE for capturing sentimental moments like these. The way your mom tears up when she sees you in her old veil, the little grin when your new husband realizes your "something blue" was actually a secret nod to your first date—these are the moments that make your wedding photos priceless.

Let’s chat! I’d love to hear about your wedding vision and how we can make sure every detail is captured beautifully. Click below to inquire about your date! 📸✨

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